By Pastor Greg
Junior had just received his
brand new driver’s license. To
celebrate, the whole family trooped out to the driveway and climbed into the
car while Junior drove. Dad immediately
headed to the back seat, directly behind his son. "I'll bet you're back there to get a
change of scenery after all those months spent teaching me how to drive,"
said the boy. "Nope," said
dad. "I'm gonna sit here and kick the back of your seat as you drive, just
like you've been doing to me for sixteen years!”
Ahhh … there’s nothing quite so
satisfying as getting even, am I right?
Getting back at someone seems soooo
rewarding. Wait, what was that you
said? Did you just say “No”? Seriously?
You disagree?
Although getting even or seeking
revenge is the natural thing to do, is this the way a Christian is to
respond? Is it okay for a Christian to
follow their basic human nature and seek revenge? I mean, after all, it’s who we are, so is it
a big deal if we simply follow our gut
feelings on these matters? Some people
might tell you that it’s okay to follow your feelings; to do as your heart
tells you to do. However, the Bible
teaches us something different.
I want to start with an example
here. Look at what happens with Jesus
and His disciples during their last Passover meal together. In John 13 we read, Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew
that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had
loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the
very end. 2 It was time for supper, and the devil had already
prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus
knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had
come from God and would return to God. 4 So he got up from the
table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, 5 and
poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying
them with the towel he had around him.
6 When Jesus came to
Simon Peter, Peter said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?” 7 Jesus
replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.” 8 “No,”
Peter protested, “you will never ever wash my feet!” Jesus replied, “Unless I
wash you, you won’t belong to me.” 9 Simon Peter exclaimed,
“Then wash my hands and head as well, Lord, not just my feet!” 10 Jesus
replied, “A person who has bathed all over does not need to wash, except for
the feet, to be entirely clean. And you disciples are clean, but not all of
you.” 11 For Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he
meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.”
12 After washing their
feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what
I was doing? 13 You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. 14 And
since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each
other’s feet. 15 I have given you an example to follow. Do as I
have done to you. 16 I tell you the truth, slaves are not
greater than their master. Nor is the messenger more
important than the one who sends the message. 17 Now
that you know these things, God will bless you for doing them (John 13:1-17).
Although this part of the story
surrounds Peter’s reaction to the feet washing, it’s important to know that
Judas the betrayer was present at this time.
He left the room shortly after Jesus washed his feet (see verse
30). What makes this significant is that
Jesus knew these things before Judas
betrayed Him in the garden. Jesus knew
what Judas was about to do (compare verses 21-26). Yet knowing this, Jesus still humbled Himself
and washed Judas’ feet.
Jesus washed Judas’ feet. That sure makes my life rather
complicated. It should make the life of
any Christian rather difficult. You see, our “gut” instinct would be to avoid
Judas. We would “accidentally” splash
some water on his pants. Many of us
would call out his hidden behavior in front of the rest of the crowd. Few of us, if any, would gently hold his feet
in our hands and serve.
Yet Christ did. And then He told us to do the same thing.
And He wasn’t kidding.
I know we could argue about
this. We could tell Jesus it’s too hard
to resist. Our feelings and our
instincts overwhelm us. Surely God must
understand this. We’d like God to cut us
some slack, but He doesn’t. There are
just too many places in the Bible where God teaches us what sort of behavior He
expects from us.
Do not take revenge or bear a grudge against members of your
community, but love your neighbor as yourself (Leviticus 19:18).
"Don’t
gloat when your enemy falls, and don’t let your heart rejoice when he stumbles"
(Proverbs 24:17). Love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute
you! 45 In that way, you will be acting as true children of
your Father in heaven (Matthew
5:44-45). You are to be perfect, even as your Father in
heaven is perfect (Matthew
5:48). Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to
the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I
will pay them back,” says the Lord. 20 Instead, “If your
enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to
drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads”
(Romans 12:19-20).
I could go on. The point is, a Christian is called to be
transformed; to “22 throw off your old sinful nature and your
former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. 23 Instead,
let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. 24 Put on
your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy
(Ephesians 4:22-24).
I tell you the truth, the last
thing we want to do for a sinful person is wash their feet. The last thing we want to do is put ourselves
in a position beneath them. But that’s exactly what Jesus did. Through the eyes of John, we see a Jesus who
teaches us to serve others … even the antagonist. Yet, how do many Christians respond
today? We see gloating when someone
falls. We see Christians looking for
revenge. We hear people who claim to be
followers of Christ speaking about others in an unloving way. Truthfully, it’s difficult to tell the
Christian from the non-Christian nowadays,
especially if you listen to the words of their mouth.
My friend, we are the Church. We
represent Jesus. We are His ambassadors
in this world. Our actions and our words
should be compelling, not divisive. We
should be acting differently than the people of this world. We do not have the luxury of following our
instinct. Rather, we should humble
ourselves before the Lord and respond in ways that reflect Jesus.
What then are we to do? If who we are is in conflict with who God is
calling us to be, how do we overcome our instinct? Paul talks about sacrifice. He says that God can transform us if we allow
Him to change the way we think; by the renewing of our mind (Romans 12:2). We can be changed
if, at first, we recognize that following
our instincts is wrong. We cannot trust
our heart, for it is corrupt and filled with sin. We must first accept
these things, then humble ourselves before the Lord. We must present ourselves before God and make
a living sacrifice. We recognize our old behavior is wrong, learn how
God expects us to act, and then daily sacrifice those old actions and reactions that dishonor the Lord.
So … yeah, it is wrong for a
Christian to seek revenge against those who hurt them, even though it is the natural
thing to do. A Christian must follow the
teaching of the Lord. Living as a Christian
is not easy. There is a big difference
between knowing the path and walking the path.
If we claim to be a
Christian, then we are no longer free to follow our “gut” instinct. We are not free to follow our basic human
tendencies. We can’t simply follow our
feelings or do whatever our heart desires … at least we can’t and truly follow
the teachings of Jesus. He has not given
us that option.
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